Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Fuck all the women on okcupid. I hate you.

I fucking hate people.

I'm on okcupid.

I send someone a message genuinely interested in something, or asking a question about what they do, or information on a mutual interest in the area.

I don't get a response.

But the site shows they've been online since I sent the message, and they've looked at my profile. So it's not like these people haven't received my message. They've gotten it, and they choose to ignore polite conversation.
Why?
Because they've so god damn full of themselves. They get off on ignoring people. They like the special feeling they get by ignoring someone.
It makes them feel special.
Like it's some accomplishment of desirability that they're laid a trap, in a place to that connects people to other people, and they've sprung it.
They've managed to acquire interest from someone and ignore it one fell swoop, providing themselves with a high of exclusivity.
Someone's unwittingly witnessed their false claim in whatever it is they're looking for and gone to inquire, only to be shunned.

I'm not asking for a date, marriage, or sex;I am just asking for a small piece of conversation. With no other obligations, and at full anonymity.

This is one of the reasons I hate people.

I imagine this is the reason that chauvinists are born. To be repeatedly denied a simple request by someone that made themselves available for request, without explanation or reprisal.

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